Currently there are a large number of myths about sex that are widely established in our society, but that are not really true. Normally we tend to think that what they tell us is true, hence many of these myths have passed from generation to generation and are still present in our society. And, although information reaches us more easily, we still tend to believe the main myths blindly.
For this reason we have decided to create this article. Our goal is to show you sexual myths that are widely recognized in society, but that are not really true. We want to open your eyes and start seeing the true reality about sex. On many occasions we do not do things because of the fear that these myths cause us and that makes us miss out on very interesting things in this life.
1- Losing your virginity as soon as possible is the best
The social pressure on virginity is very strong. Young people feel forced by the myth that you have to lose your virginity soon. This makes people who have trouble losing her feel pressure to get it and lose her with anyone.
It is often thought that everyone should lose their virginity before the age of 18 or 20, but it can really be lost at any age. There is no need to be in a hurry to lose it, the important thing is to do it with the right person to enjoy a good experience. And why does that happen? Well the answer is simple, it happens because the concept of virginity is really wrong as we know it.
Normally we tend to think that virginity is only lost when penetration is performed. Taking this idea into account, virginity is not lost if only oral sex occurs, that is, a lesbian couple would never lose their virginity if they were not with a man who penetrated them. Even so, it is essential to be certain that a person should always lose their virginity when they want, that is, they should never be pushed to lose it if they really do not feel ready. There are people who lose it at 40 or even never and can continue enjoying their lives.
2- Sex has to be spontaneous
Another thing that we usually think is that relationships have to emerge and cannot be searched for. But that's really not the case. Just like we eat even when we are not hungry, sex can be had at any time, that is, it does not always have to be spontaneous.
It has been shown that people who have this type of view of sex are in great danger of not really enjoying it. This is because you have to set a date and time and consequently any unforeseen event can prevent you from enjoying that great natural pleasure. For this reason, it is important to learn to have prepared and spontaneous sexual relations. This way we can have a certain expectation and consequently the results will be more professional.
3- Penis size matters
It is one of the great myths that surround us and it really is not like that. Many men wonder if size really matters when it comes to satisfying their partners and it has been proven that this is not the case. Many surveys have shown asking women anonymously if the size really offered them more pleasure and the answer was almost always the same. Size doesn't really matter.
Asking the experts, they have also agreed with the results of the surveys, the size of the penis is not really related to the pleasure that a woman can obtain in a sexual relationship. This is demonstrated by the fact that the sensitivity of the vagina and anus is not found deep inside, but is found on the outside. For example, in the vagina the most sensitive point is located right in the outer third.
For this reason, it has been shown that men really worry about the size of their penis because of the myth. That myth says that the bigger you are, the easier it is to satisfy a woman. It's true that for some women a larger penis causes more arousal, but a smaller one doesn't really change the experience. Experts have told us that as long as it is greater than 8cm when erect, it is more than enough to satisfy a woman. What's more, many studies have shown that a penis that is too large can be counterproductive. Not only will men have more problems when moving, but women can suffer pain due to excess size. If we forget the myth, we can conclude that a medium size is the best option.
4- Anal sex is only for homosexuals
Another myth that has been proven false. Until recently, people who wanted to enjoy anal sex quickly were classified as homosexuals. Luckily, society is evolving and we are realizing that this myth is really not the case. A very masculine man can enjoy anal sex and not be homosexual.
The myth has arisen due to lack of knowledge when it comes to enjoying anal stimulation. In the past there has always been fear of this type of penetration for fear of pain and, above all, of discovering hidden tendencies. But now we know that it is a type of sexuality that helps you enjoy extra pleasure with your partners. Furthermore, it has been shown that men have the G-spot in the anus, that is, to enjoy true pleasure you should always enjoy anal penetration or stimulation. For this reason, you have to get rid of the idea of homophobic beliefs and be willing to experiment. The best way to enjoy new pleasures is to experiment. If we listen to the myths, we are going to miss out on pleasures that we would never be able to enjoy otherwise.
