The secrets of the male G-spot
2021-05-26 12:09:48
When we talk about the G spot, we usually think that it is only present in women. But it really isn't like that. Although for many men the G spot is unknown, the truth is that they have it and it is there to be discovered.
The problem for many men is that they have in mind the taboo, which has surrounded our society for several decades or even centuries. This makes them not dare to investigate out of fear. To this we must add that many men do not know where it is and much less know how to stimulate it.
What is the G spot?
Although it receives that name, according to experts it should be called the P point. That name is due to the fact that it is located in the area of the prostate. The male G-spot is located about 5 or 7 cm deep from the entrance to the anus. Once the penetration is made, it is quite easy to locate because it is shaped like a walnut. It is located quite close to the urethra and can be stimulated internally and externally. Luckily, the mentality of men, especially young men, is changing. The taboo is being put aside and consequently more and more men want to stimulate that area to achieve a higher degree of pleasure. To achieve this, the most recommended thing is to opt for prostate massages. With this type of massage you can obtain and multiply the pleasure of a normal orgasm. That means that the vast majority who try the experience want to repeat it again. As they always say, until you try something you don't know if you like it or not. It is important to know that the male G-spot cannot only be stimulated through penetration. It is true that it is the simplest option, but it can also be stimulated externally. [caption id="attachment_1821" align="alignnone" width="843"]
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How to stimulate the male G-spot step by step
Before getting down to work, hygiene is important. Whether you are going to do the stimulation yourself or your partner, hygiene is essential. It is important to wash your hands well and ensure that your nails are well cut.- Preparation: Now is the time for the man to relax so that the experience is pleasant. A man who is not relaxed, but quite the opposite, will not enjoy it. To make penetration and consequently stimulation easier, an appropriate lubricant must be used. Currently there are anesthetic lubricants with which the area can be numbed. It is an effective way to avoid pain and break the experience you want to enjoy. Remember, nothing should be done until the man is relaxed. Everything done beforehand will be of no use.
- Gentle movements: so that the area begins to relax and consequently penetration is easier, it is best to opt for a massage of the perineum area. The massage has to be gentle and slow to obtain good results. This will make it easier to relax the area. In addition, it is recommended that the man lie on the bed facing the pillow. To make stimulation easier, it is recommended to put a pillow in the butt area, so it will be slightly high and access will be easier. Now is the time to touch the area between the anus and the testicles. Next, you must stimulate the external area to relax the nerve endings. When you notice that the area is ready for penetration, it is time to apply lubricant and move on to the next step.
- Internal stimulation: penetration does not have to be quick, but rather it has to be little by little. The body has to adapt to the experience or it will shut down and penetration will not be possible. Penetration must be done with a very well lubricated finger and introduced very slowly. The finger should be curved slightly towards the navel. At about 5 or 7 cm you will notice a small hazelnut, which means that the G-spot has been found. Once you have found the area, do not go any further. Avoid inserting your fingers too much or pain may occur. In the future, when the person gets used to it, deeper penetration can be performed, but now we are interested in focusing on the G-spot.
- Start playing: When you have found the area, start doing different movements. Start with light things and then vary it. The objective is for you to realize which are the things you like the most and which are the least. Once you have received the information, focus on the things you like most so that the stimulation is adequate. The goal is to achieve a good degree of pleasure and you will achieve that if you do things well. Normally with pleasure an erection occurs. It's normal, you shouldn't worry. The difficult thing can sometimes be finding the point that interests us. If you don't find it the first time, don't give up, try more times. Sooner or later you will see where it is and it will be easier to stimulate it on future occasions.
- Use a massager: if you don't want direct penetration with a finger, you can use a sex toy to make the experience “less traumatic.” The best option may be to use a small dilator. With that simple tool it will be easier for you to get used to it. Of course, make sure it has a wide base to prevent it from getting lost inside the anus. Normally all of them have a wide base, but it is important to highlight that detail.